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Hey merlocke. I hear ya on the jealousy bit. I have always been the same. it sucks. for us AND our partner. I'll never really get over it, but an exceptionally wise man told me:
"You know he's (or in your case she's)yours, he (she) knows he (she) is yours, so long as his(her) lips and hands arent where they dont belong, and no one is touching HIM (HER) where they shouldnt be - what the hell does it matter - You're the one whos bed he(she) ends up in at the end of the day. The last voice they hear and the first voice they hear when they wake up - is yours. Make those words be meaningful ones, and know that every time they leave you, youve done all you can to make them want to come back to you at the end of the day. Do all that, and then never worry about it again."
My grandfather told me that. he and my grandmother were married for 62 years when he died. you can bet i'm going to believe what he had to say when it comes to relationships. I've never seen two people more in love than my grandparents. they started off as young as you and your wife did.
Dont know if that helps you any, but I hope it does.
*hugs*
Midnight
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