Yeah, I agree. Definitely have a chat with him. Something's off here, if he cares so much about these girls' feelings instead of yours. Unless you're just a booty call. Telling you to lie to your friends and coworkers and then telling you he can't promise you a relationship IMO is a big red flag. Why are you following his wishes anyway about lying to your friends? Stand up for yourself. Don't let yourself be disrespected. Unless he stands up for you in front of his "friends" then you've got nothing with him. Sounds like he may be trying to keep his options open with these women.
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