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Originally Posted by pig
personally, i'd just go play soccer and be friendly. certainly don't ignore the girl you asked to come...you know she's cute and you like her personality. be friendly with the chick your buddy is bringing, and as jazz points out - be careful that he's not interested in her, etc. this is so much easier said from the vantage point of being a good bit out of college - but don't overthink it and don't worry too much. between non-verbal cues and pheromones and eye contact...don't worry.
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Agreed. To me, neither of these even sound close to a "relationship". Just acquaintances. I'd agree with pig, play soccer, enjoy yourself, enjoy their company. Maybe they'll even get along with each other. After spending some time around them, invite one out for coffee, see where that goes. If it works out great, if not, invite the other to do something. You're not in a relationship yet, you shouldn't feel limited on who you can flirt with.