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It occurred to me that I have another piece of advice to offer here:
Go take a belly-dancing class.
I'm 100% serious. I have never had such a self-esteem boost. You see women of all different ages, sizes, shapes, body-types, etc., and it hits you that 1. everyone has something beautiful about them, and 2. sexy is in your attitude, not in your BMI. There was a woman in my last class who was flat-out overweight, and she was the sexiest, most confident person in the whole class. Much more so than the lithe 20-somethings who were trying to be "sex-ay". She moved for herself. She had complete control of her body. It was AWESOME. And the more you have to jiggle the better. So go make friends with your hips and shake 'em.
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"If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing."
- Anatole France
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