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Originally Posted by Siege
But you just said right there that his ego will be damaged slightly.
What I meant was that this person will be hurt to SOME degree regardless of what you do. I mean he is after all getting turned down. I don't think anybody can be ecstatic when that happens.
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I guess it depends on your idea of 'hurt'.
I tend to associate hurt with having your heart smashed against a wall. You know, that emotional shut down so bad it physically hurts?
If I asked out a girl whom I thought liked me and she said no, it would be a hit to my ego, but it wouldn't hurt me.
If it were walking in on the woman I love fucking my best friend.....ouchies....that shit hurts.
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Hyacinthe, the little guy is only 16 and had to go through all of that!!?
Hmm, you know, if he doesn't deal with what's happened and the issues he's dealing with now, he could develop some pretty debilitating social neurosis later on.
I think if you can find a way for him to just hang out with girls more (especially ones his own age) it will help him a lot.