There is a point related to this topic, I promise.....
I was turned down by a girl I knew in high school for pretty much the "let's not ruin the friendship" reason. What made this completely bearable was that she then offered to "coach" me through getting girls of my own accord. I got crash courses in fashion, conversation, what was corny, what wasn't, even what turned girls on. Now I didn't become a rock star or anything, but those pointers I received from that girl really did lead to me being a hell of a lot more confident, which was exactly what I needed.
I don't know if it will help the OP, but wanted to bring it up in case it may be an option.
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