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I have thought about this more for the past couple days, and it seems that I like my roommate more. By this, I mean that if I was single and had to choose one of them, I would choose my roommate instead. My roommate has more in common with me for serious issues like life goals and what we want in a relationship. There are also other reasons, but they are too personal to say. I think this is still too soon to make a judgment so I will try to think more.
But for my meeting with my boyfriend, he will not be able to visit me for a long time and it is expensive to travel to his relatives' city. So far, we are thinking of making the schedule so he visits next Friday, but my roommate returns home on Sunday. Should I tell my boyfriend about my thoughts sooner or face to face instead?
I am hoping sooner, because I want to know his thoughts in detail and also have more time to think after learning his feelings. But it may look disrespectful to tell on the phone/online (sometimes need to online if his relatives are sleeping or working) instead of face to face.
If it is later when we talk face to face, we will have better judgment of our body language and tone of voice. But this will be less time to process that judgment or maybe it will seem I am disrespectful for delaying.
Which do you think is better?
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