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I am living with him because I moved in the middle of semester. This was the only place that was okay for my budget and inside a quiet neighbourhood in our university city. He was living there when I came. My landlord said he was extremely quiet.
My boyfriend and my roommate knows my habits in the same way. They know I am very quiet and need a lot of time by myself. Sometimes I accidentally ignore people if I am thinking intensely, or I do not want to say anything no matter what. I have also lived with my boyfriend for a semester. Anything that is bad about me should be quite visible. I do not attempt to hide habits inside my home so both of them should have decent judgment about my character.
My boyfriend and my roommate have a different type of compassion. My boyfriend is more personal so he is very good to his friends, family and me. But he does not care too much about a bigger community, which I do. My roommate cares more about the bigger community and selects which people he truly loves, like just one sister and one brother in his large family. So it is really difficult to judge. However, I know for sure that it is more visible in my boyfriend.
Thank you for encouraging me about my boyfriend. Still not sure what will happen, but for now I asked my boyfriend to visit me very soon. It is easier like that because his university city and mine are very close, but his relatives are far away (they pick him up at the airport). I hope it is before my roommate returns from vacation so I have time alone with my boyfriend and have a better judgment.
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