ok there is a bottom line here a lowest common denominator if you will.
He thinks about her friends when hes all hot and bothered. ok, this isn't the best but it happens sometimes I'm guessing on both sides.
He surfed to her friends Myspace pages, made an effort to save said pictures to his hard drive for future use.
Over the line.
Its one thing to have a passing thought about someone when you're in the moment or feeling frisky but to make an effort doing something you know you would not like done to you? Over the line.
Now its between the OP and her BF as far as the consequences go but he did something he knew would hurt his GF of 2 years.
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