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cadre · 07-29-2007, 02:03 PM

Wow, talk about a divide as far as gender goes. I can't say that I'm all that surprised, and I also can't say that I'm surprised that I'm siding with a lot of the men on this one.

I don't think it's all that big of a deal, all that it means for him to do that is that he thinks your friends are hot. Radioguy's also right, he obviously thinks you're hot too! Maybe when you think of someone using a friend's picture to masturbate you think he'd rather be with them but I doubt that's what he's thinking.

The fact that it upset you so much though is a big deal, I think you need to spend some serious time working on your self image and self esteem and leave the rest alone at least until you've gotten better.

07-29-2007, 02:03 PM	#26 (permalink)
cadre The Worst Influence Location: Arizona	Wow, talk about a divide as far as gender goes. I can't say that I'm all that surprised, and I also can't say that I'm surprised that I'm siding with a lot of the men on this one. I don't think it's all that big of a deal, all that it means for him to do that is that he thinks your friends are hot. Radioguy's also right, he obviously thinks you're hot too! Maybe when you think of someone using a friend's picture to masturbate you think he'd rather be with them but I doubt that's what he's thinking. The fact that it upset you so much though is a big deal, I think you need to spend some serious time working on your self image and self esteem and leave the rest alone at least until you've gotten better. __________________ My life is one of those 'you had to be there' jokes.