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Going after your GF is way beyond ball busting. That's just an asshole thing to do.
I was really sensitive about ball-busting when I was a kid 'cause I got made fun of a lot in grammar school. As I got older, I grew more confident (not enough, but hey, and now it doesn't bother me too much. I think most people have a good sense of the ever-present line. The amusing thing is the people who don't usually are the most sensitive when you hit them back hard. I have a very good friend who is like that. He's a great guy, really, but a big ball buster and once in a while he'll cross the line. He's also probably the most personally sensitive guy I know, though he'd never in a million years admit it, and really has absolutely no conception of how sensitive he really is. It's his blind spot.
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