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Originally Posted by abaya
Actually, this reminds me of that Sex and the City episode from the first season... where the brown-haired girl (forgot her name) has a great new boyfriend. Except for the fact that every time they start making out, he starts pushing her head down towards his crotch for a blow job. She eventually breaks up with him because she doesn't like the pressure (literally!).
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Her name is Charlotte, love that show!
And yea, three times a day is crazy a lot.
I happened to be one of those girls who doesn't like giving head.
Wait, scratch that. I don't mind the giving part, it's the closer that puts me off.
Cum is so gross to me, it's like seawater in my mouth and makes me want to gag no matter how hard I try not to. I wish I had a better tolerance for it, but it just makes me want to vomit.
I feel bad for James because he's a big fan of bjs...thanks to past girlfriends..*sigh* and I'm really not. Makes me feel like I'm not up to par with them because I don't like to do it. He says I'm really good at it and that he enjoys it a lot so I do it on occasion but not as often as he'd like I'm sure which makes me feel guilty...and like I'm being a lousy girlfriend.
But...since I don't care for it too much he doesn't press the issue...instead it's probably "grumble grumble."
Also he used to ask me to use my mouth a little bit before we'd have sex but I said please don't ask, I'll do it when I'm ready. Which has worked great, so maybe try asking him not to ask you so much but to let you decide when you want to. That way you'll want to and he'll enjoy it.
Also...is he taking care of you as well? I certainly hope so.