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jRuntlets · 07-23-2007, 10:13 PM

Hey ya'll,
It's been a long time since I've posted... but for good reason. I started seeing a new guy a few months ago and everything is fantastic, but I'm starting to wonder about something.

Backround:
We're not having sex for the time being because I'm not ready. However, we are having oral. We've got a strong basis for a relationship and open communication. He's happy with where we are despite the fact that we're not having sex yet.

Problem:
He seems to want a blow job up to three times a day. How many times a day would you do it? I've drawn the line at two, if he's lucky. I don't want to be his walking blow job, not to mention he's a MAGNIUM (if you know what I mean) so it's kind of an undertaking anyhow. He's explained that he doesn't view me that way but it's a nice thing to start and end the day, and sometimes in the middle. I feel like I'm saying no all the time, and he respects that but I still feel bad just because he's asked. What's normal? I've only gotten to this point in a relationship once before seeing him and it was short lived.

Do all guys want it this much? Do all girls have to turn their men down?

07-23-2007, 10:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
jRuntlets Crazy	And how many times a day do you do this? Hey ya'll, It's been a long time since I've posted... but for good reason. I started seeing a new guy a few months ago and everything is fantastic, but I'm starting to wonder about something. Backround: We're not having sex for the time being because I'm not ready. However, we are having oral. We've got a strong basis for a relationship and open communication. He's happy with where we are despite the fact that we're not having sex yet. Problem: He seems to want a blow job up to three times a day. How many times a day would you do it? I've drawn the line at two, if he's lucky. I don't want to be his walking blow job, not to mention he's a MAGNIUM (if you know what I mean) so it's kind of an undertaking anyhow. He's explained that he doesn't view me that way but it's a nice thing to start and end the day, and sometimes in the middle. I feel like I'm saying no all the time, and he respects that but I still feel bad just because he's asked. What's normal? I've only gotten to this point in a relationship once before seeing him and it was short lived. Do all guys want it this much? Do all girls have to turn their men down? __________________ Horses come and go, but some leave permanent hoof prints on your life.