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My wife and I had a female friend, who happened to be an illegal. She started dating this guy that everyone felt was bad news.
The 1st problem came after a night that we all went out. He got upset because he felt like she paid more attention to everyone else. To make his point clear, he pulled over the car and kicked her out.
After this happened, everyone told her to dump his ass, and that she didnt need to deal with his bullshit.
Flash forward 3 months, she is still with him. At which point he decides that she is cheating on him. He started parking a couple of houses down and watching her house and jumping the fence to see if there was anyone inside with her. After about 2 days of this, he asks her to go to breakfast with him.
Once again everyone told her just to forget him.
He picked her up the next morning for "breakfast" and drove her start to the nearest border patrol check point and turned her in.
Border patrol agents were shocked to hear what was happening. They gave her some advice and deported her.
When she got back to the US, she went to the DA's office and filed charges. Apparently, other things had taken place and she had proof. They did a background on him and he had a rather long record.
So, after this long drawn out story, here is what I was getting to:
The guys family was extremely racist against hispanics, and having grown up around so many (90% of the pop in my city) his was torn between his family and, well, the rest of the city. Could he have controlled himself, yes. But I have a feeling that the way he was raised, as others have already said, had a lot to do with it.
(whew, that was a lot to type on the cell phone.)
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