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BBtB · 07-11-2007, 08:52 AM

Well by and large you answered your question with your last statement, those who should have loved and cared for him as a child taught him the way to show love was with violence. I also want to add that this is far from a "man" problem. There is an equal number of unblanced women. You do not hear about it as often because of two factors, one they rarely do as much phsyical damage and men are less prone to talk about it (even abused women rarely get out of the relationship or get out just to get into another, even fewer speak of it)

This is certainly not the only cause but I would dare say its the most common, drugs had a role too I am sure but I am more inclined to call that another symptom of the same problem.

07-11-2007, 08:52 AM	#4 (permalink)
BBtB ClerkMan! Location: Tulsa, Ok.	Well by and large you answered your question with your last statement, those who should have loved and cared for him as a child taught him the way to show love was with violence. I also want to add that this is far from a "man" problem. There is an equal number of unblanced women. You do not hear about it as often because of two factors, one they rarely do as much phsyical damage and men are less prone to talk about it (even abused women rarely get out of the relationship or get out just to get into another, even fewer speak of it) This is certainly not the only cause but I would dare say its the most common, drugs had a role too I am sure but I am more inclined to call that another symptom of the same problem. __________________ Meridae'n once played "death" at a game of chess that lasted for over two years. He finally beat death in a best 34 out of 67 match. At that time he could ask for any one thing and he could wish for the hope of all mankind... he looked death right in the eye and said ... "I would like about three fiddy"