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I don't see it as playing the field at all. My wife has guy friends. I have girl friends. Neither of us (as far as I know, and we talk about it now and then) have any worries.
As to the OP, I used to be jealous, too. But here's my line of thinking (and it works in situations outside of love as well)...
If she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. There's really nothing you can do about it. If you don't try to control her, then she has significantly less reason to do so. In fact, showing that trust really helps build stronger relationships. But as I said, if she was going to cheat, she'd do it either way. You can't MAKE somebody not cheat on you. So, what's the point in being jealous? Without the jealousy, one of two things will happen. She will fall for someone else, and you have to accept it, or she won't, and she'll love you all the more for trusting her with her guy friends.
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