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tinydancer · 07-05-2007, 10:12 AM

OOkay.... thanks for everyones feedback...

Maybe I didn't fully clarify....hmmm.....
I know that he looks at porn a lot....and that many times he's turned sex down... but I'm not saying that I've ever caught him. that sounds bad... umm... I've never noticed him actually getting himself off.... I just know that he looks at porn a lot. And when someone doesn't want sex with their partner,but looks at porn so much.....EHG.... Now i feel like an idiot, cause i guess I assumed...... that he's getting off to the porn. But what else can i think?? If he won't with me but looks at porn all the time, that's the only thing I can think! Other than the few other reasons ya'll pointed out. IDK I just know that even though I do look at porn on occasion, I still want him... soo much. I STILL WANT!! Just don't understand why he seemingly doesn't...

OH... and as far as him not bugging me when I may not be in the mood.... That isn't even an issue.... I'm always in the mood...anyday, anytime....ALWAYS!! Soo....maybe it's more my problem, than his?? Maybe I want it so much that the sex in general isn't desireable for him anymore...not so much that I'M undesireable to him....hmmmmmmmmm

07-05-2007, 10:12 AM	#15 (permalink)
tinydancer Tilted Location: Ohio	OOkay.... thanks for everyones feedback... Maybe I didn't fully clarify....hmmm..... I know that he looks at porn a lot....and that many times he's turned sex down... but I'm not saying that I've ever caught him. that sounds bad... umm... I've never noticed him actually getting himself off.... I just know that he looks at porn a lot. And when someone doesn't want sex with their partner,but looks at porn so much.....EHG.... Now i feel like an idiot, cause i guess I assumed...... that he's getting off to the porn. But what else can i think?? If he won't with me but looks at porn all the time, that's the only thing I can think! Other than the few other reasons ya'll pointed out. IDK I just know that even though I do look at porn on occasion, I still want him... soo much. I STILL WANT!! Just don't understand why he seemingly doesn't... OH... and as far as him not bugging me when I may not be in the mood.... That isn't even an issue.... I'm always in the mood...anyday, anytime....ALWAYS!! Soo....maybe it's more my problem, than his?? Maybe I want it so much that the sex in general isn't desireable for him anymore...not so much that I'M undesireable to him....hmmmmmmmmm __________________ My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I'm happy. I can't figure it out. What am i doing right? -Charles M. Schulz Last edited by tinydancer; 07-05-2007 at 10:16 AM..