katyg

Hey there,
Just wanted to gauge this topic with other men/women who are on here.

I am a middle child in an all female family, the first boyfriend I had (16-22) said he never enjoyed porn and then at 20 I found a huuuuge stash on his computer. Firstly, it upset me that he lied, secondly, the stuff really offended me, I found it all quite aggressive, sexist, upsetting, I felt as if it was a betrayal and it caused a lot of arguments.

Fast forward to now, my current boyfriend seems to be quite into it (he was sinlg until 23), he has a lot on his computer, once when I wasn't up for sex in the morning he went onto his computer and I caught him wanking. Again, it quite upset me, I had mixed feelings like being jealous, but also being sympathetic that he was just horny.

I wonder if this is normal, that I should be jealous? I am the romantic type and like to think that my high sex drive and love for sex and trying new things, can keep my partner satisfied and interested! As well as that I hate to think that at 26 I am some how 'past it' and boys have to look at young teens in porn to get off.

It is unreasonable of me to have this objection?

thanks!
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