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Originally Posted by Rubby
as for communication; i dont mind talking about it but she usually prefers just to laugh it off instead of going into a serious conversation about it... so what would you recommend at that point?
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Welcome to the wonderful world of adulthood (although you're not quite there yet...) where you have to have uncomfortable conversations. It looks like you're the more mature one, so it's going to fall on your shoulders to make it happen.
Of all my many failings in relationships in my late teens and early twenties, I think my greatest was not discussing sexuality and expectations with my partners. She may not know what she wants at this point, and discussion should help her work through that. It also helps to establish boundaries so that no one ends up disappointed or angry at the end of the date.
As I posted earlier, all relationships move at their own speed. You shouldn't get caught up with the idea that you're moving too quickly or too slowly, but if you discuss the speed and decide what it should be, that concern should go away on it's own.
Good luck. I hope we see you back here in a couple of years.