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As promised, an update.....
10 days later…
All is well. Wife knows about it, and is happy for me. The bruising and tenderness are mostly gone. Still have a quick pinch now and then, but nothing major. Staying up on the aftercare is easy to do. Sleeping on my stomach is not a problem anymore, but I do have to position myself just right to do so. A few “hands-on” experiments haven’t really proven this piercing to be any more stimulating than before, but still is kind of nice feeling. I’m waiting until actual intercourse before passing any real judgment. Mentally, I’m still happy I did it, and I’m still thinking the “if they only knew what I’ve got in my pants” type things. All in all, this experience is still way over on the “positive” side of things.
1 month later…
Healed up nicely. Still doing the Provon soap at least once a day, and haven’t done the salt soaks in a week or so. It doesn’t cause me any discomfort at all except the occasional pinch now and then. I’ve gotten used to having to twist it to piss and haven’t had any issues with that. Even sleeping on my stomach isn’t an issue any more.
I’m still kind of stoked about it, and I am still in awe at how I was able to go through with it, but the novelty appears to have mostly worn off as far as the mental aspect. Instead of “Oh wow! I’ve got a PA!” it’s more like “Heh, its kind of cool.” I’ve made a few hints at some of my coworkers, but nothing that directly mentioned that I have it. One of my favorite lines is “I’d rather put another hole in my dick than…” Guys always grab their crotch when I say that. Mwahahahah!!! Little do they know that in some cases, I really do mean it.
Now, I’m sure you’re all wondering about “it”. Yes, it has been tested. The wife has obliged me by giving me a few different “test runs”. First was the hand job. Feels different, and depending on how she holds/strokes it, can actually add to the feeling. Second was a blowjob. Honestly, that was a bit uncomfortable, but I had a condom on, and it was kind of binding the ring to one side causing some discomfort. That happened about the 2-week mark, so it was probably a bit early and was still a little sore. I’m negotiating another “test” for that one. And of course the biggie, actual intercourse. Now, let me mention that right off, actual intercourse isn’t a 4 times a week thing for us. She has medical issues that keep us from that regularly. Anyhow, she relented, and allowed the final test to happen. Wrapped up in a condom, with plenty of lube, we felt....well, nothing different. I think that the ring was bound up against my dickhead inside the condom, and prevented any sensation that might have otherwise been felt. As with the blowjob, I will be negotiating another test in the future without the condom. The good news to all of this, despite the non-increase in pleasure, is that it wasn't a decrease in pleasure, and the wife isn’t bothered by it in that none of our activity hurt her.
So, one month later, I would have to sum up my experience so far as definitively positive. I’d be willing to go through it again with no hesitation, and am happy as hell that I finally went through with something that I had agonized over for so long. My plans in the near future are to stretch up with the purchase of some 8 gauge jewelry, possibly a curved barbell with some larger balls to prevent them from entering my urethra. I have to tell you, that’s an interesting sensation, and even more interesting when you realize where the ball is when you go to take a leak.
More to follow…..
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