I need some advice here...
This is the wackiest situation I can recall being in.
I am a 22 year old male. I have one brother, a workaholic father, and an anxiety suffering, possibly over-loving mother (I break at saying co-dependent). My brother is gay; up till now I really haven't thought much about that, but it's never been a problem for me really.
This weekend my friends and I got together for Canada Day and did mushrooms, a last time for me becaus I'm moving away in 2 weeks. One of my friends seemed to be following me around a bit and there was, for lack of a better word, weird vibes going on. I was sitting on my bed with playing with my new laptop when he made laid down next me on the bed. I moved over, and he followed. I said such things as "no man, don't feel bad but no" a couple of times but he just kept coming so i got up and left for another room. He followed after me saying stuff but I was avoiding listening, but he did say quite loudly "only for you". I actually had to pretty much yell at him "no man. get yourself together".
After pacing around for a while, I tried to go to bed; this was of course impossible because of the mush. In fact I was still tripping pretty hard, and now all of a sudden had a whole new set of parameters to think about. Now I'm worried about my friend and just his general well being, but springing something on me like that while I was tripping has really thrown me for a loop. I actually got a STRONG peak lying there in bed of what I can only describe as an approximation of a female orgasm. I actually felt as though I were a woman, through and through.
I have always had difficulty talking to girls; I cannot communicate with them for the most part, especially one on one. All my close friends are guys. I have had only a handful of relationships and they have all been extreme in one way or another. I feel a lot of the time that I am just not acting the part right, uncomfortable in my own skin. Not all the time, but enough of the time.
Now here I am. The thing of it is, at the time and even after, I actually had no real desire to do anything. I did enjoy the fact that SOMEone wanted me at least, but really that was it. This all happened night before last. I saw him again tonight for Canada Day fireworks, and met his new girlfriend for the first time. The only reason I went was because I feel I should talk to him about what happened, because so far the plan of just ignoring it completely seems pretty dumb. I don't want this one jumping out at me down the road.
I don't really know what I'm asking for here, mostly I just wanted to get it out. Thanks people.
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