abaya

I've heard this from more than a couple of my girlfriends... many of them took several attempts to even get the penis in, because it just hurt so bad. It traumatized some of them a bit at first, but in most circumstances the guys were patient enough to let it take as long as necessary... which eventually helped the girls relax. So yeah, be as patient and understanding as possible, because she's most likely going to be under a lot of pressure to make it a "good" first time, even if she's in pain.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran