I can usually be clear but when I am extremely upset that is when I use these words. I have trouble expressing my negative emotions, especially with lovers and often I'll get extremely silent.
I have seen men act differently and point out what they feel their female lover has done to wrong them... But I find explosions of rage uncomfortable and I know that when I say howI feel, these often follow.
It is definatly something I want to change but I do not know how. I like to think of myself as fairly femminist but when I read an article like this I notice that in some ways I still submit to men.
Any ideas ladies?
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