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There have been a lot of males commenting on this thread...so I thought I'd throw in a female's 2 cents.
You will most likely hurt her. It's a fact. Sex hurts. But that's not a bad thing. It's something that has to be done to get to the pleasure. She's just going to have to grit her teeth and bear it, and you should offer to stop if it hurts her too much. But if she still has her hymen, and hasn't explored herself much, it will hurt. She might not bleed, but she might. I didn't bleed, but it fucking hurt like a bitch. Feels great now, though. I just had to get through the first two weeks of sex, which SUCKED. After two weeks, everything sort of stretched out a little, and all of a sudden it felt wonderful.
It's been so long, but I remember I felt like I was going to be torn in two. Literally.
Just take it slow, and easy, and follow her lead as far as speed. Some women have no pain at all the first time, so who knows. She might be one of those lucky ones.
Lots of foreplay, lots of lube, stop if she asks--I think that's about it.
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