I would suggest taking your time and exploring other sexual, but not intercourse interactions, i.e. handjobs, oral sex etc. Get to know your and her equipment and it will be easier to figure out how to insert tab A into slot B. Not everyone bleeds (generally not a concern for guys). Use some lube, but don't go crazy, it's easier if you lubricate the mechanism a little. I wouldn't do it when you were drunk. Make sure you both are really into it, not a lot of fun if in the back of your head there is a nagging "I don't think she really wants to do this." Oh yeah, and try to enjoy it
