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medlar · 06-25-2007, 09:34 AM

I wouldn't take this face to face with anyone I know ..so:

I know it makes a difference who you are with, if you care/love them and how long you've been waiting for this. And of course being up on all the consequences, the protection required, etc.. But I keep hearing this. The first time is largely over-rated.

Is it the universal truth, that is over-all, the first time will be awkward, unenjoyable, sweaty, clumsly, and poorly done and worse very painful for her? Especially if both parties are having their first time. Or is it the cliched fireworks setting off and 20,000 people in the room cheering? Maybe for the guy the bad portions can be over-shadowed by the whole OM MY GOD IM ACTUALLY HAVING SEX factor and the girl is meanwhile painfully dissappointed and having wasted two minutes of her time. Just wondering, any inspirational takes or warning I should heed?

06-25-2007, 09:34 AM	#1 (permalink)
medlar Tilted Location: In this flesh and bone thing	The Virgin's Ultimate question. I wouldn't take this face to face with anyone I know ..so: I know it makes a difference who you are with, if you care/love them and how long you've been waiting for this. And of course being up on all the consequences, the protection required, etc.. But I keep hearing this. The first time is largely over-rated. Is it the universal truth, that is over-all, the first time will be awkward, unenjoyable, sweaty, clumsly, and poorly done and worse very painful for her? Especially if both parties are having their first time. Or is it the cliched fireworks setting off and 20,000 people in the room cheering? Maybe for the guy the bad portions can be over-shadowed by the whole OM MY GOD IM ACTUALLY HAVING SEX factor and the girl is meanwhile painfully dissappointed and having wasted two minutes of her time. Just wondering, any inspirational takes or warning I should heed?