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Well, my chilly friend, how do you decide if it's reciprocal? Is she a good girlfriend? Does she love you? Does she SHOW you that she loves you? If so, it seems to be reciprocated to me. Are you meaning, more specifically, that she doesn't do favors like that for you? Do you ask her to?
My ex-gf and I were in a similar situation, but this was an item that never really bothered me too much. My biggest concession like this was always driving to see her on the weekends (she went to Michigan State and I lived outside of Detroit, a roughly 1 hour drive each way). Her excuse was always school, that she could use the time I was driving to study and have more time for me when I was there. Logically it made sense, but I couldn't help but feel sometimes that she could just as well drive to see me if she really wanted to. Eventually it bothered me enough to really talk to her about it. After that, she drove to see me at least one weekend a month. *shrug* Sometimes it's just not asking or not communication that a seemingly little thing is important.
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