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Old 06-23-2007, 01:34 PM   #3 (permalink)
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When someone quits weed, they become nasty, short tempered, sullen and sarcastic. They pick fights and withdraw from people they would otherwise care about. But....from my experience, those problems are realized and apologized for. If he has not expressed remorse yet for how he behaved while kicking his habit, he needs to do so. Ask him if he has any. Tell him what happened during that time weighs on you and is preventing you from giving the best of yourself.
Then ask yourself what is this relationship built on and what is it doing to your own self-worth and power. Sultana is dead-on-you have to work on yourself and he has to work on himself; it's not your job to improve his life, only your own.
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