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Originally Posted by Creizen
I guess I've only portrayed the bad things about her. Anyway I talked to her again, I sorted it out it seems. See how things go.
Its easy for you guys to just say drop her when you're not remotely emotionally attached to it. Plus my situation is a bit messy (the apartment is in her name atm).
But thank for the advice guys.  |
Trust me on this one, avoiding a "messy" situation is a really, really bad reason to stay in a relationship. You can find another apartment if you need to, or stay with a friend, or find somebody looking for a roommate. Yes, if you do end up breaking things off then you're going to have to relocate, but it really is a minor inconvenience compared to living every day miserable (if that's the case).
In the end, it really does boil down to weighing the good against the bad. Do the bad things make you more miserable than the good things make you happy? It's very easy to let yourself just sit and hope things get better, if only to avoid "rocking the boat", but that doesn't solve anything. It's rare that a relationship will completely deteriorate to the point where there's absolutely no good left, so the simple fact that there are still good things in the relationship shouldn't be the sole deciding factor in the face of something that you'd consider to be a major issue.