Something sounds suspicious here. Such behaviour seems rather extreme if she allows herself to have this sort of "friendship" with other men but does not allow you to even have small communication with women friends. This is very hypocritical. Have you talked to her about her past? What was her past relationships like with other people, including platonic frienships with women and relationships with family? It just seems to me she is extremely insecure, which is why some people in this thread say "attention whore". It is not an unfounded statement, but there must be some reason.
Regardless, I think you both need a compromise. You have good reasons for jealousy but it may be a good idea to try being less jealous for a while and see if her actions have drastic changes (e.g. she has sex with someone else but not telling you). She has already made some compromise just by telling you about her sex life in the past. Some people can be embarrassed to say such things to their significant other so it is good of her to let you know. But it would be nice to see her take one extra step by seeing things in your shoes and try displaying to her friends more explicitly "I am Creizen's girlfriend only."
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