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The very suggestion that she would want to do something like this tells me that she isn't taking your relationship seriously, especially if she knows you have a problem with it. If you can't work this out to a point where you are both comfortable and she goes ahead with it anyway, you might want to consider moving on because it would clearly mean she isn't intending to be with you for the long haul.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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