She wouldn't tell you what she'll be comfortable with probably because she knows you'd have a problem with most all of them. That is, of course, assuming she thinks you'll never get to see the videos.
If you're not on board with this, and I wouldn't blame you, I don't foresee your relationship lasting very long at all. I'd say she has very little respect for you or your relationship if she has no consideration at all for your opinion.
This is not to say that she can't decide what's right for her and her body, etc., but it does mean that your relationship is worth less than this side-job, if she's willing to do it against your wishes.
Her desire to do it is all well and good for her, but she should not expect you to be ok with it.
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