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my secret is to just stop putting women on a pedestal. I used to respect women just for the fact that they were women but I found often times that it was undeserved. You, 1st of all, as cold as this sounds, can and will have the ability to take care of yourself and your needs, be a little selfish. Find a cute girl to chat up but dont make the mistake of trusting or respecting her to start, that shit needs to be earned.
now, on the subject of sex, it is BETTER to go to town with someone who you trust and respect vs someone you dont.
you have to seperate the mental from the physical, cuz right now from the sounds of it, your mental is crippling your physical.
however, truth be told, you don't NEED sex to survive, you don't even need human interaction, you could just stay all tangled up, but whatever, I don't think its the most healthy life to live at that point.
or, you know, pick someone elses advice, as my life is kinda fucked up in its own way too.
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