Hello,
As you can tell I'm new to this forum, though I've browsed a few times. People hear seem to be good with advice and have a wide spectrum of experiences.
So I have a question that I'm far to shy to ask a doctor about.
I have Phimosis (A tight foreskin that doesn't retract. Think balloon being stretched over a steering wheel). What can I do. I'm in my mid twenties and I really don't want to get circumcised. If there was some way of me being able to deal with this on my own without getting professional help, it would be great.
It did stretch all the way a few times when I was with my ex 4 years ago, but then didn't roll forward fully. Quite uncomfortable. Basically the head hasn't rubbed on anything in my entire life, so going with the foreskin would be very painful.
It's caused a lot of self-esteem issues, and stopped me getting close of woman because I know that I can't perform fully. Sorta sucks when I want kids some day. I could just go for it and meet a girl and explain the problem and just try get it to stretch again, but that really wasn't that pleasant and my ex found it almost as frustrating. Though, admittedly she was a bitch who kept cheating on me.
Hopefully someone here as had, or heard of, a similar problem and can offer some advice. I just hope it isn't the person here who actually knows me
