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Originally Posted by Kristina07
After a long relationship ended I went a year and a few months with out sex. Then one day I suddenly realized wow, its been that long. And for me it was the same thoughts - is this good for me? So went out and made a point to meet some new guys, found one "good enough" to have sex with and did. It was nice to get the release again. Sex does make you feel better - for me at least. I never was a fan of casual sex until I tried it. For me, yea sex is better when there is feelings and a connection involved but actualy sex can be mind blowing with someone who is just there for sex as well. Now I have a sex buddy. He has become somewhat of a decent friend also, but knowing I have that release waiting whenever is great. Seeing him (meaning doing amazing things to each other and having loud, breath taking sex) relieves a lot of stress and makes things seem a lil better in the day-to-day. Also finding someone who it seems to be great with everytime is a major plus. So. my vote is to get out there and get you some! Don't pay for it though....there is too much booty you can get for free - you just gotta look! Happy hunting  |
The casual sex thing is not a bad idea, to be sure.
However, some people, like me, can't distinguish feelings from sex. I'd love to be able to, but I can't. So rather than put myself through anything that's just going to make life more complicated, I just hold out for people I actually give a crap about.
But I would be lying if I said I didn't feel like I was missing out sometimes. But I've made my choice I guess.
I can relate to the OP in one regard though, time just fucking flies past. And sometimes you sit back and take it in and ask the question "Jesus, has really been that long!?".
I guess one of the things in life is be who you want to, do what you want to, and try not to fuck around too much about it.