After a long relationship ended I went a year and a few months with out sex. Then one day I suddenly realized wow, its been that long. And for me it was the same thoughts - is this good for me? So went out and made a point to meet some new guys, found one "good enough" to have sex with and did. It was nice to get the release again. Sex does make you feel better - for me at least. I never was a fan of casual sex until I tried it. For me, yea sex is better when there is feelings and a connection involved but actualy sex can be mind blowing with someone who is just there for sex as well. Now I have a sex buddy. He has become somewhat of a decent friend also, but knowing I have that release waiting whenever is great. Seeing him (meaning doing amazing things to each other and having loud, breath taking sex) relieves a lot of stress and makes things seem a lil better in the day-to-day. Also finding someone who it seems to be great with everytime is a major plus. So. my vote is to get out there and get you some! Don't pay for it though....there is too much booty you can get for free - you just gotta look! Happy hunting