Could be the after-effects of your divorce, on a sort of subconscious level -- a temporary aversion to relationships. I had an ugly breakup with a long-time GF in college, and it took me quite a while to wend my way back to the dating world.
My advice is to not rush into something because you think you should. But don't let yourself or your mind linger on the past, either. That just makes it more difficult to get back into things. Push yourself a little bit and let your instincts take you from there.
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