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Originally Posted by shakran
Even now, she still has the option of breaking it off with him if she decides that she doesn't like the condition she agreed to.
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Who says that's not what she is planning? I see four possible reasons for her actions.
1) It slipped her mind/She didn't know he was going to be there until later.
2) She didn't want to get into trouble.
3) Having cake and eating it too syndrome.
4) She's getting her next relationship lined up before she dumps shoe because some people are incapable of being single.
3 and 4 would make her the immature one...a metaphorical relationship death penalty, but 1 and 2 are fairly innocent and only minor offenses...a relationship parking citation.
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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
The girl has no chance to prove that she WILL be faithful to him because he's acting dictator.
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She may not be doing a good job of earning his trust if she is already withholding information from him. If she wanted his trust she would have been open and honest in the first place.
After a little consideration, I would agree with all of the previous posters that said that it all depends on the girls character and whether or not she has matured since her previous infidelity. There IS after all a 50/50 chance that she was trying to protect the relationship.
Although, there is a reason people say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater."