I still say him....he's dictating her ENTIRE social life by making it where she has to know who's going to be where/when. He was invited and declined to go because he couldnt act like an adult and not punch someone out, so yeah Im calling immature behaviour.
Is she supposed to live the rest of her life with him having to suddenly leave parties because this guy showed up.
The girl has no chance to prove that she WILL be faithful to him because he's acting dictator. I completely understand him saying "dont associate with him" to me that does not include having to run scared because this guy showed up at a social situation she was at. To me what it means is she doesnt seek him out to spend time with him.
Am I the only one that thinks this was totally unreasonable? Sounds to me like there has been no forgiveness on the OP's part, he's going to continue to hold it over her head. That is NOT conducive to a productive relationship
For those that dont agree with me, sorry, I cannot stand it when people try to tell other people they have to sit at a party worried about who is or isnt going to show up
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