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Originally Posted by RedSabre
She may not intend to see 'fucker' at all and 'fucker' may just happen to be there.
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She knows he'll be there. She knows Shoe doesn't want her "anywhere near the guy." So what this boils down to is that she's willing to risk her relationship with Shoe in order to go to this party. Now, whether that means she intends to cheat with this guy again, or just that she doesn't want to miss the party, I don't know. But frankly it doesn't matter. Shoe, the ugly truth is that she tried to hide something from you again. This is obviously a pattern of behavior at this point - especially since imo you went WAY above and beyond the call and gave her another chance (personally that's my one hard and fast rule - -- or at least it was when i was still in the dating scene - - - You cheat, you're gone, end of story). You need to decide if this is a pattern of behavior that you are willing to accept in order to be with this girl.
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If you think she is going to the party to see 'fucker', then you have a right to be angry.
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He has a right to be angry period, and I think Will missed the point here - - trust isn't an issue. Of course he doesn't trust her. She was trying to pull a fast one again. Nobody trusts the bank robber who's in the act of robbing the bank, not to rob the bank. By the same token, you don't trust someone who's in the act of breaking the get-back-together deal not to break the terms of the get-back-together deal.