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Do men and women not respond differently? I always thought that men were easily aroused by visual stimulation, a beautiful woman, a 2D representaion (magazines, internet pcs etc) or even a movie . . . . . whereas women are less likely to get turned on like that (I am not saying they dont!) but if a women fancies a guy that works in her office for example . . she is unlikely to imagine him naked . . more likely to romance about other aspects . . . . . whereas a guy will almost certainly be imagining her naked. This would explain why the ratio of porn for men ad women is so unbalanced! if women had that drive they would be googling for porn all the time . . and in my experience they dont.
As regards low self esteem . . . . . . most of the women I know are pretty assertive and strong . . . . . . maybe by low self esteem you mean 'acting coy' and seeming vulnerable and in need of 'protection'? Its just a trick . . dont fall for it! Run for your life!
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