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Despite the claim that you attend a University, I frankly question your age. I don't mean to insult your intelligence or maturity, but it seems like you both have a great deal of growing up to do.
I'm certainly no wizened scholar (only 21) but this story sound like the types of "I like you - no I don't, just kidding" kind of games that high schoolers play. They're perpetually scared of rejection and letting the other person know, so they hide it in the most oblique ways. It's unfortunately counterproductive, as it leaves both parties wondering, and takes time away from what could otherwise be spent having a real relationship.
Once people mature enough to at least tolerate the fear of rejection and put themselves out there, they stop playing mind games such as the one she seems to be participating in.
She's quite immature to continue behaving in this way.
Being immature is fine, but it makes me also question you. You're in college - there are a lot of attractive, intelligent and available women who will gladly talk to you (and some of them are likely to be mature enough to NOT play these types of games).
I'd advise throwing this 'relationship' on the back burner, and talk to her as friends. You need to go out and meet a real WOMAN, instead of messing with triflin' girls.
Just my 25 cents.
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