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Also try different positions. I know sometimes it hurts for me in different positions (that whole bumping the cervix thing I believe) but everything can be modified slightly to accomidate what feels good for both of you. And lube is very important along with foreplay. I know sometimes when it's been a long time in between sex (hey it happens, I'm single) it is a little tight to get in, but everything opens up the way it's supposed to and works out. If you are worried about size, maybe have her try playing with dildos to build up her "tolerance". It's a win win! Oh and congrats! Don't think about going soft either, the more you think about things, the more stressed out you get and the more likely it is to happen again. It's all in your head (the big one haha). I had a boyfriend that got hard and could go for hours, but couldn't finish, he had issues and it was all psychological.
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