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Old 05-08-2007, 08:56 AM   #2 (permalink)
ratbastid
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Originally Posted by aa1037
Do you agree that my going soft initially was because I over-hyped myself to the point of anxiety?
No question about it. Happened my first time too.

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Originally Posted by aa1037
The other thing I found out last night was that my girlfriend is narrow. She explained to me that sex is pretty painful but she thinks she'll adapt and it will get better. I couldn't help but feel bad that I was the person, in a way, who caused her that pain. Anyone have some advice about this situation? I'd like to think we take it easy and softer until it is not as painful for her.
One word: LUBE. Way too much is nearly enough. She's designed to pass a baby's head through there. It's really not a matter of her being too narrow.

Oh, and... congrats.
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