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Would have an kid with Autism be the most horrible thing in the world? This is one of those things that is really really hard for me to understand. People want perfect kids. I work with people with disabilities and also my youngest brother has special needs. I hate all these tests people have done, for example to determine if a child would have Downs Syndrome. Yes these children can be a lot more work, but the reward in my opinion outweighs the extra work. I really don't want kids, mostly because I think the world is too fucked to raise kids anymore and I'm selfish. But I do think that I would like to adopt a baby with Downs Syndrome or something like that, because I know the rewards and could probably deal with it better than a so called "normal" child. I don't know, this reply doesn't make a lot of sense, but I believe that if you're going to have a kid, you do it and get what you get, ya know? I personally feel your girlfriends excuse is lame and may be a guise for another issue. What is unethical about sperm donors, adoption, etc. I think if she wants children and she wants them with you, she will find a way to make it happen. Or accept the possiblity that if you were to have a biological child it may not be "perfect".
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