"the best advice i can give is find shit you like to do and just go do it with people. "
I'm gonna try joining some clubs at my university
"if you look like you're having a good time other people will want to be around you."
Very good advice! If I have the mindset that I'm having a good time, I usually do and others too!
"You're not sending out different emotions, but different signals."
This is just like the quote above!
"do you think anyone would get laid if it wasn't for alcohol? that's probably why all the religious fundamentalists in the world are so angry."
an eye opener!!
"I think it's even easier in a group of semi-distant friends"
maybe true, but sometimes I think of how I haven't spoken to them in awhile and maybe think they think I'm avoiding them... but I guess I shouldn't think like that...
"It can be helpful I think to take on a role that causes you to deal with people - such as a volunteer or casual job"
great idea, but I'll have to put that one on hold for now..
thanks guys for your support
last night I got smashed and it was an awesome time!
I noticed that all the guys had so many stories to tell... my memory isn't that great and I don't have that many good stories.... does anyone have tips on coming up with stories to tell? do you practice them in your head or something? I don't think I can just make up stuff... maybe I'll try brainstorming and writing ideas down..