to me "moving on" = growing up. There's no step-by-step instruction you can take to this. Maybe once you see thing at a different perspective, or learn from this experience you can finally move on, or you can choose to delve on it, be all bitter or what not and that means you really have fallen and couldn't get up. And I wouldnt say finding a new girl would solve any problem, if your still not getting over the last one, getting into the new one doesnt make your problems disappear. you're just bringing baggages into the new one and that would definately put a strain on it sooner or later.So dump these baggages first before you even start a new relationship , I would say.
Not much of an advice but umm... goodluck and I wish you the best of luck with moving on, *cheers*.
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