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Originally Posted by Seaver
That being said I've found the only way I've stopped thinking about my exes are when I find a newer/better girl.
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The only issue I have with that is the fact that a good chunk of my experiences in the past years all revolve around my ex. So I get in the habit of bringing it up in conversation, like "Oh, I did that once with my...uh...friend...", etc. For example, if the subject of pets ever comes up, I have way too many stories I can tell because of my ex. I don't want to not share them just because its my ex, but it almost seems like I can't let go when I bring those stories up. Currently I just say something like "Oh yeah, a friend of mine used to have pets...", even though we're not friends at all. I've gone out of my way to get her out of my life, much to her dismay.
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Originally Posted by Seaver
The thing you have to remember is it was never as good as you remember it being. We remember the good times, and not the reasons the break up occurred.
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I remember some of the reasons still, but yeah, I have to really think about it to remember why I hated the relationship. The most annoying thing about it was there were times that she would simply not talk to me. I'd call her to talk about whatever, and she'd be almost silent. That's when I knew that something was going on and things were going to turn downhill for a while. I realize now that she was playing games, and oh did I ever develop a hatred for that.