A couple of points to think about.
Length is more a problem than thickness because if it is too long you will hit the end of the vaginal sheath and most women find that always uncomfortable while men find it unsatisfactory to not be able to fully penetrate.
Too thick is not such a problem. First, the vagina stretches. You can get a baby out through there. Over time it will stretch so that she is comfortable with you. If it stretches and she moves on, it will shrink back again over time (think of what happens after she has given birth).
If she has problems climaxing via intercourse, she is not unusual, more women climax regularly through oral sex than with a penis. Try bringing her to climax via oral and then inserting your penis. Because she has climaxed she will be lubricated and relaxed. Sometimes just her being tense (from seeing the size of your donga perhaps) can cause the vagina to become tight and cause pain during intercourse. Use your tongue to bring her first and she will worship you and she will be more likely to climax when you have sex with your penis. Women generally find it easier to climax the second time if you don't stop inbetween. If you want to really learn how to use your tongue properly, get hold of a book called "she comes first" I think you can even buy it as an mp3 download.
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