Originally Posted by tenchi069

My wife is on BC and we do not use condoms. Were both committed to each other and well aware of the consequences of BC failure. That being said, I make it a point to ask every night if she has taken her pill, in which 99.9% of the times I get either "yes" or "not for another x minutes", but there has been once or twice in our 4 years of being together where i've gotten the "no i haven't thanks for the reminder". That way even though only SHE is on the BC, we are BOTH taking responsibility.